A person who truly loves you does not want bad things for you, by the way, fervently wishes for your well being.

How wives are faithful and devoted to their marriage is of vital importance in order to have a good relationship with their husbands. A good wife knows that any unpleasant event happening could bring suffering and pain. The Holy Bible says that the moment we get married, we become one flesh.

Pray for your husband is a good and invaluable detail that pleases God. Praying for someone is the best sign of love, a good way to express how much you love a person, demonstrating that your husband is an important topic in your conversation with God.

You can pray for your husband:

To Love God above all things.

It is important that your husband has a close relationship with God. Your marriage will be strong because God blesses those who love him.

His place in marriage.

According to the precepts of God, the husband is the head of the marriage and must be seen and treated as such. For that reason you must include in your prayer that God will provide him the wisdom necessary to behave as he is.

He is the provider of the family.

God created man to be the provider of the family, since it is part of their masculinity and their responsibility as head of the family, so you must pray for your husband will go well at his job and can always bring the bread home. Of course, there are special situations when a husband cannot work due to physical limit, yet respect him as your husband because that pleases God.

His role as a husband.

The marriage must always stay strong so you must pray that he loves you and accepts you with all your flaws to help you improve.

Pray that he can overcome temptations.

We are living in a sinful world, so you must ask God to keep the mind of your husband and also to keep him and yourself pure. Ask for God’s help so he and you can overcome temptations in order to glorify God and to maintain the purity of your marriage.

Becoming a wife means to stop thinking individually to think as part of a couple and a family. You represent your husband and set an example to your children, therefore you must take care that all your activities are worthy of a woman who fears God, and who respects herself and her family.

Here are five activities that should certainly be excluded from your life so that both your environment and your relationships with your husband are always in harmony.

• Avoid Gossiping

All forms of gossip are fundamentally malignant. When a person tells you something about someone behind their back, it is because they are probably lying, or are telling a half-truth, because if not, why would not they say it directly before the person in question?

Nowadays, gossip is a much more popular activity than before. People gossip mouth to mouth or through social networks, and lies spread even more than the truth, causing innocent people to pay for crimes they have not done.

Gossip can lower your self-esteem, can generate unfounded fears, ruin the image of a loved one, and can even ruin your marriage. Malicious people can approach you through gossip to hurt you or your family. Do not let them. Cut the chain and do not listen or multiply the gossip.

• Eradicate bad habits

Bad habits damage your image as a woman, as a wife and as a mother. Activities such as drinking alcohol, smoking, playing games of chance among others, disrespect God and your husband, besides damaging your health and giving a terrible example for your children.

A strong, intelligent and self-confident woman does not need any of these “additives” to have fun and socially share. Each of these habits has only negative effects for you. Alcohol damages your ability to reason clearly, smoking hurts your health and that of everyone around you, and gambling puts your family savings at risk and devalues the effort your husband makes to obtain those resources.

• Do not dress inappropriately

Your way of dressing must always represent you as a lady of God, as a woman who belongs to a man, and who gives herself to respect. You can no longer think only of what clothing you want to wear, but also what clothing God would like to see you with and what clothing your husband would like you to wear.

Dressing in an attractive but demure manner will make your husband feel comfortable by your side wherever you go, and that your daughter wants to dress like you when she becomes a woman.

• Decline invitations to immoral parties

It does not matter if it means losing a couple of friends, a married God-fearing woman should not be part of the popular meetings where only excesses and sins are extolled. Attending will only manage to worry your husband and your children of the hundreds of risks that exist in these meetings.

Lustful dances, people in a state of intoxication, games of chance, drugs and all kinds of permissiveness that only disrespect God and detract from you as a lady. Many people will insist that you share with them in these types of activities, but you must have the strength to face them.

• Resign that absorbing work

Having money to support the family is important, but take care of your home and your children are even more so. If your husband has a stable job and is able to provide everything necessary for the family, surely he will value more that you can ensure the safety of the children, that you take care of them by yourself and help them with their homework instead of a nanny, and that you prepare dinner instead of buying it already made.

Of course this doesn’t mean that you should devote yourself absolutely to the work of the home, because every woman has ambitions and professional goals, but be considerate of acquiring responsibilities that do not completely subtract the time to share with your husband and children. They will value it and you will feel a positive change in relationships within the home.

Glamor weddings everywhere, but the marriages are in shambles. Wives do not know their roles, husbands do not know what it means to be married men.

Today, we are going to see four simple steps to being the wife of your husbands’ dreams, that woman he asked out, walked the aisle with and anticipated a future with.

Its’ not really difficult, but you must put your heart to it to get the desired result. Marriage is an institution where you learn every day through mistakes, but you don’t have to make every mistake to learn. Learn from these and move forward.

Steps to being a dream wife

What are the steps to take to be the wife your husband wants you to be? Find below.

Be his friend: A man wants a lady he can talk to. One who he can share his mind and ideas with. He wants a friend who he can always trust for advice and support. You must be that woman, you must be that lady, that friend.

When he is down emotionally, he should be able to turn to you. When he needs help psychologically and mentally, you should be there to lift him. These are what he can (or cannot) get from friends outside, depending on their relationship. But you are with him and you must be the friend he needs.

Communicate with him: You must communicate with your husband. Some families are lacking in communication. They hardly discuss in-depth. You should be able to talk to your husband in a language he understands. You know how he reasons and should talk to him in a way which he can relate to you in return.

Understand his viewpoint: When your husband is discussing with you, do your best to understand his viewpoint. You must be flexible (the both of you) in your views and should be able to understand what your ideas are. You don’t have to always engage in arguments to prove your point when you can simply listen and understand where he is coming from.

Learn to forgive: Your husband will offend you time and again. You have to forgive him. Your husband needs you to be his strength. A source of hope and encouragement. Men will be men. They will misbehave, they will show the little boy in them, but you must be the woman he wants, the woman who forgives him.

Now, you know the simple tips to become the woman your husband wants you to be. It is not going to be easy, neither will it be difficult if you put your heart to it.

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